Archive for the submission Category

In Which I Answer Some Questions About Submissiveness

Posted in D/s, Questions Answered, submission with tags , , , , on January 23, 2015 by Xajow

Take your seats, students. Class is in session. Recently I received some questions from an impatient commenter who wishes to remain anonymous: What does it mean if you’re submissive with a certain kind of person and not with others? And does that mean you are not submissive? What’s an ideal submissive? Is it a 24/7 submissive like a Dom would be? And what does it mean if you genuinely are the complete opposite with others and this can’t mean you only enjoy role playing a submissive if you genuinely are with the people who can bring that side out or make you want to let them take control? Is a good submissive always submissive? So let us try to unpack some of this and provide some answers. Continue reading

Sub Assignment Number Six

Posted in D/s, sub assignment, submission with tags , , , on October 15, 2014 by Xajow

Remember back when I posted the previous sub assignment, and I said the next one would be posted the following week. And then it didn’t happen. Yeah, erm, I meant it to happen. So, um, well, anyway, that sub assignment I was going to post then, well I am posting it now. So, submissives, get ready to do some more kneeling. Continue reading

Sub Assignment Number Five

Posted in D/s, sub assignment, submission with tags , , , on September 3, 2014 by Xajow

Yes, the time has come for another assignment. I know you’re excited. Breathe. Anyway, this assignment is for submissives, but also for those who may be wondering if they are a submissive. And this is actually the first part of a double assignment. Fair warning, there will be kneeling and writing involved. Continue reading

Some Words About Rituals

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , on July 21, 2014 by Xajow

Students, you might want to prepare to take some notes today. I talked about rituals once before, about having rituals and including them in D/s. Today, I want to talk more specifically about creating a ritual. One can just string some actions together, repeat it all a few times, and call it a ritual. But one can also be more thoughtful about it, and give specific meaning to specific actions and thereby create a ritual with more significance and beauty. And hopefully create a ritual that enhances the D/s experience.
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What I Want #5 (Not Safe For Work)

Posted in D/s, Dominance, NSFW, submission, What I Want with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 3, 2014 by Xajow

You will notice that the formatting is different for this one. I am trying something new. Anyway, on with the warning. Here at Liberate One World Headquarters (LOWH), this post has been determined to be Not Safe For Work (NSFW) by the Official Committee For Determining Which Things Are Not Safe For Work (OCFDWTANSFW). This determination was made because in this post naughty words have been used to describe things of a dirty, licentious, sexual and possibly even arousing nature. This post is intended only for mature adults who want and are legally allowed by the laws in their area to read things of a dirty, licentious, sexual and possibly even arousing nature. If you are not a such an adult and/or are puritanical, you are advised to seek entertainment elsewhere. You have been warned. Continue reading

Sub Assignment Number 4

Posted in D/s, sub assignment, submission with tags , , , , on April 9, 2014 by Xajow

The first sub assignment was relatively easy and had a decent amount of people agreeing to do it. The second was more difficult, and had fewer people agreeing to do it, and even less follow through responses. The third, and by far the easiest one, has had exactly one person show any interest at all. I will try this one more time. And if enough of you indicate to me you are not interested—which is to say you do not leave comments to tell me when you accept the assignment and when you complete it—then this will be the last one. Continue reading

Let’s Talk About Obedience and Follow Through

Posted in D/s, Discipline, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on April 7, 2014 by Xajow

Okay, class, today’s topic is obedience and follow through. Yes, before you ask, this is a D/s post. And I will be talking to both Dominants and submissives. Yes, cute girl on the front row, what is it? Yes, you may kneel beside your desk, but I still expect you take notes. Now then, let’s begin. Continue reading