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A Dream of Gentle Control in Public (possibly NSFW)

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , on March 19, 2014 by Xajow

Yesterday’s post was a littler darker than usual. So now I offer something a little lighter, a scene of control in a public place. How is that lighter? Well, you will just have read it and find out. This is not a whole story, just a scene that springs from my weird mind. It is wholly fictional and possibly Not Safe For Work. I promise I have tried to keep the naughty words to a minimum. This post is for mature audiences, because it just is. Never try this on your own without some fresh batteries. Continue reading

What I Want #4 (Not Safe For Work)

Posted in D/s, Dominance, NSFW, submission, What I Want with tags , , , , , on March 18, 2014 by Xajow

I have not posted one of these in a while. But I should warn you, this is not light and fluffy. In addition to being Not Safe For Work, this is a bit harsh. Possibly even too dark for some of you. I have not really decided what it is, except that it is something I wanted when I wrote this. This post is for mature audiences only. It contains a sexual and BDSM situation, naughty words, bondage, discipline, and dirty stuff which you sane, vanilla folks should probably never try at home. You have been warned. Continue reading

Spiritual Discipline: Who Is the Greatest?

Posted in Christianity, D/s, Dominance, Spiritual Discipline, Theology with tags , , , , , , on March 12, 2014 by Xajow

Yes, I know, this post is late. It should have been up about four days ago. Oh well. Anyway, today the topic is leadership. What sort of advice on leadership is found in the Bible? (Hey there, Dominants, you might want to pay attention.) There are a lot of lessons about leadership in the Bible, but I am going to focus on a pair of passages from the gospels. And just so you do not think the Spiritual Discipline column is somehow unrelated to the rest of the blog, I believe these passages have a bearing on how Dominants should handle leadership within D/s relationships. Continue reading

How Should a Dominant Treat His Submissive?

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships with tags , , , , , on February 13, 2014 by Xajow

While looking through the search terms that have led people to Liberate One, I came across an interesting question. How should a Dom treat his submissive? This is certainly a reasonable question, particularly for someone who may be just beginning to learn about Dominant/submissive relationships. So let us see if I can provide a reasonable answer. Continue reading

The Perpetual Question of Certainty

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Philosophy, Questions Answered, Relationships, submission with tags , , , on November 18, 2013 by Xajow

Time for class, students. In relationships, particularly those that leave us vulnerable to being hurt, we often find the question of certainty. And this is no less true in Dominance/submission relationships. I was asked recently, “How does a Dominant know a certain submissive will fulfill his wants and fit his needs?” There are really two questions here. The literal question itself, and the implied question. Are you prepared? Good. Class begins. Continue reading

Getting to Know Your Dominant

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on November 12, 2013 by Xajow

I was asked some time back to talk about a Dominant’s needs versus wants. Specifically mine. Well, I am not going to get specific about mine. That is a topic for a private discussion in a different situation. I can speak, however, a little bit and in more general terms about the wants and needs of a Dominant. So that is what I will do. Continue reading

On Being a Dominant, part whatever

Posted in Advice, Dominance, Philosophy, Relationships with tags , , , , , on September 19, 2013 by Xajow

Sometimes, Dominants, you will find yourselves behaving in a manner that seems perfectly normal and amicable to you, and someone else will be offended by your words and/or deeds. And sometimes the someone offended will be a person who is or wants to be in charge. It may even be someone with whom you must, for whatever reason, get along amicably. What do you do? Continue reading