Archive for Dominant

How Well Do You Know Your Submissive?

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, For Doms, Relationships with tags , , , on July 25, 2014 by Xajow

Submissives, this post is not directed at you. In this post, I will be talking to Dominants only. This post is for all Dominants, but especially young and/or inexperienced Dominants. Yet even experienced Dominants may learn something. So pay attention. Continue reading

How Should a Dominant Treat His Submissive?

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships with tags , , , , , on February 13, 2014 by Xajow

While looking through the search terms that have led people to Liberate One, I came across an interesting question. How should a Dom treat his submissive? This is certainly a reasonable question, particularly for someone who may be just beginning to learn about Dominant/submissive relationships. So let us see if I can provide a reasonable answer. Continue reading

On Being a Dominant, part whatever

Posted in Advice, Dominance, Philosophy, Relationships with tags , , , , , on September 19, 2013 by Xajow

Sometimes, Dominants, you will find yourselves behaving in a manner that seems perfectly normal and amicable to you, and someone else will be offended by your words and/or deeds. And sometimes the someone offended will be a person who is or wants to be in charge. It may even be someone with whom you must, for whatever reason, get along amicably. What do you do? Continue reading

On the First Steps to Becoming a Good Dominant

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Philosophy with tags , , , on September 5, 2013 by Xajow

So you have determined you are someone with a dominant nature. Or someone is asking you to be a Dominant in a relationship. Or you have stumbled across this Dominance/submission stuff and you are wondering what it is all about. In any case, what you want to know is what would and/or should a person starting out as a Dominant do. Okay, let’s talk about that. Continue reading

A Dream of Lust #2 – Not Safe For Work

Posted in D/s, Dominance, NSFW, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , on September 4, 2013 by Xajow

This post is not safe for work. I repeat, this post is Not Safe For Work. If this post were rated, it would be rated for mature audiences only due to the nature of the content. Naughty words are about to be used in describing a scene involving things sexual and lascivious. If you are easily offended by such things, I recommend you turn elsewhere for entertainment. If you are not easily offended by such things, I suggest you might benefit from having a towel handy. Okay, enough flirting. Let us begin. Continue reading

Project August: Day 6 – The Hunger of a Dominant

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Men, Project August with tags , , , , , , , , , on August 6, 2013 by Xajow

Okay, students, pay attention. I know some of you have questions about how a Dominant thinks, what does a Dominant need, and what drives a person to want to be a Dominant in a D/s relationship. So pay attention. I am going to talk about these things from a personal perspective. You may not fully understand all of it, but know that your understanding is not required. Continue reading

Project August: Day 5 – Dominance and Submission as Inherent Nature

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Philosophy, Project August, submission with tags , , , , , , , , on August 5, 2013 by Xajow

On this Monday, August 5, 2013, I am now on day five of my project to post, each day of the month of August, 2013, responses to posts from other blogs. This is turning out to be an interesting exercise for me. I have never attempted this before. Anyway, what shall I talk about today? Yes, I know; you are at the edge of your seat and tingling with anticipation. Hm… As I look through my wordpress reader for blogs I follow, what do I see? Oh yes, Kayla Lords is moving her blogging to her own site. Oh, look, there is an interesting post. Yes, let’s talk about being always Dominant or always submissive. Continue reading

“Who’s In Charge Here?”

Posted in D/s, Dominance, submission with tags , , , , , , on May 28, 2013 by Xajow

Several days back, a blog I follow reposted an article about some BDSM myths. And for the most part I am in general agreement with the article. However, there is one point with which I take issue. It has to do with the question of who is in control of a BDSM relationship. I have written about this before, and I am going to write about it again. Know that none of what I say here is intended as criticism of the author of the article or the person who reposted it. What I am about to say is my own opinion on the matter. Continue reading

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 9) – NSFW

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 21, 2013 by Xajow

I have been promising to return to this story for a while. Well, wait no longer. The next part is here. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part nine of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is entirely fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised. Continue reading

How to Ask a Dominant Questions

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on March 4, 2013 by Xajow

In search terms on my WordPress stats page are a few variation on the subject of asking a Dominant questions. I confess this does not seem a difficult matter to me. I can guess, however, why it might seem an issue of concern to some. Though I am thinking that a more correct phrasing of the issue might be ‘how to respectfully ask a Dominant questions’. So let us take a look at that.

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