Archive for Dominant/submissive

A Little Reality about D/s

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Philosophy, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , on August 22, 2012 by Xajow

An interesting phrase has turned up in the search terms listed on the stats page for this blog: “how to get your sub to fully submit to your dominant will”. Pooh yi. Continue reading

Search Terms: Lightning Round

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Questions Answered, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , on August 21, 2012 by Xajow

Today I briefly answer several issues gleaned from the search terms. 1) I can understand submission but not dominance. 2) What games and things do you have to learn for a Dominant/submissive relationship? 3) How to act submissive to a Dominant. 4) Easiest explanation for a Dominant/submissive relationship. 5) Can a Dominant have more than one submissive? Continue reading

The Nature of Dominants and Submissives

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Questions Answered, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 12, 2012 by Xajow

Guess what? Yes, I am going to answer questions, but no, this time they are not from the search terms list on my stats page for this blog. Shocking, I know. Continue reading

How to Be Dominant Without Being Horrible

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 6, 2012 by Xajow

Continuing the series of posts with cues taken from search terms, today we discuss (or rather, I will talk about) “how to be Dominant without being horrible”. Continue reading

What I Want #3 (NSFW)

Posted in Alone, D/s, Dominance, submission, What I Want with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on August 4, 2012 by Xajow

I am feeling the lack of the one who was once my submissive. And I want to do certain things. This post will not be safe for work or those with religious aversion to sexual descriptions. You have been warned. Continue reading

“What Makes a Person Want to Be in a Dominant/submissive Relationship”

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 3, 2012 by Xajow

A good question has appeared in the search terms. “What makes a person want to be in a Dominant/submissive relationship?” There are possibly as many answers to that as there are people in Dominant/submissive relationships. But I will see what I can do to provide an answer. Continue reading

How to Please Your Dominant

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , , on August 1, 2012 by Xajow

Here is another one from the search terms list: “how to please your Dominant”. Continue reading

When Is the Dominant Responsible for Being Dominant

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 1, 2012 by Xajow

Once again, I try to answer a question from the search terms. In this episode, I address the question “Is the dominant only responsible for the bedroom or at all times?” Continue reading

Can Someone Be Dominant and Submissive at the Same Time?

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Questions Answered, submission with tags , , , , , , on July 17, 2012 by Xajow

Continuing with addressing issues culled from search phrases, here is another one. Can someone be Dominant and submissive at the same time? The answer, perhaps somewhat surprisingly, is yes. Continue reading

What to Say When Being Dominant

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Philosophy, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , on July 14, 2012 by Xajow

An interesting search phrase popped up recently in my WordPress blog dashboard. The search phrase is “things to say when being Dominant”. Continue reading