Archive for submissive

What Kind of Self-Esteem Does a Submissive Have?

Posted in D/s, Questions Answered, submission with tags , , , on June 30, 2013 by Xajow

A question appeared in the search terms that have led people to this blog. Since I made the question the subject line, you should already know what the question is. Of course, the next obvious question is, why am I addressing the issue of what kind of self-esteem submissives have? A-cause it seemed like a good idea at the time. Continue reading

“Who’s In Charge Here?”

Posted in D/s, Dominance, submission with tags , , , , , , on May 28, 2013 by Xajow

Several days back, a blog I follow reposted an article about some BDSM myths. And for the most part I am in general agreement with the article. However, there is one point with which I take issue. It has to do with the question of who is in control of a BDSM relationship. I have written about this before, and I am going to write about it again. Know that none of what I say here is intended as criticism of the author of the article or the person who reposted it. What I am about to say is my own opinion on the matter. Continue reading

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 9) – NSFW

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 21, 2013 by Xajow

I have been promising to return to this story for a while. Well, wait no longer. The next part is here. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part nine of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is entirely fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised. Continue reading

How to Ask a Dominant Questions

Posted in Advice, D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on March 4, 2013 by Xajow

In search terms on my WordPress stats page are a few variation on the subject of asking a Dominant questions. I confess this does not seem a difficult matter to me. I can guess, however, why it might seem an issue of concern to some. Though I am thinking that a more correct phrasing of the issue might be ‘how to respectfully ask a Dominant questions’. So let us take a look at that.

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A Dream of Extreme Control (part 8) – NSFW

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on January 1, 2013 by Xajow

Am I really starting the new year with this? Apparently I am. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part eight of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised. Continue reading

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 7) – NSFW

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on December 28, 2012 by Xajow

Yes, I know it has been a while since the last installment. But the next part is here now, so on with the disclaimer. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part seven of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised. Continue reading

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 6) – NSFW

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Story Time, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , on November 26, 2012 by Xajow

This is post is Not Safe For Work. This post has been rated BP-MA (blog post-mature), and is only for mature audiences. This post contains part six of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. The characters in this story are all highly trained, imaginary constructs. Do not try this at home, unless you are really kinky and ready for the consequences. Reader discretion, as always, is advised. Continue reading