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Something You Should Understand Before We Begin

Posted in D/s, Dominance with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on July 31, 2013 by Xajow

There is something you should understand before we begin.

I am not what you expect.

I am something other.

If you want conventional, I am not your man.

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Communication, communication, communication!

Posted in Advice, Relationships with tags , , , , , , , , , on August 23, 2012 by Xajow

I cannot stress enough how important communication is to relationships. I do not mean just D/s relationships. All relationships. Communication is vital in relationships with lovers, friends, family, neighbors, coworkers, bosses, acquaintances, and on and on. And I do not just mean talking. I mean listening too. Continue reading