Project August: Day 23 – Wherein I Clarify My Opinion of BDSM for Fun [NSFW]

I find it odd that although D/s and libertarianism are topics of equal interest and passion for me, I get lots of views and comments for the D/s posts and almost none for the libertarianism posts. But I am weird. So anyway, this post is not about politics. More about D/s today, but before you get too excited, this post is philosophical in nature. Well, this blog can’t be sexy all the time when I am posting every single day.

So Many Things to Say

There are so many things to talk about. Politics, D/s issues, and a story or two to finish. But sometimes I have to choose between spending a few hours working on this site with spending those hours dealing with other matters in life. Sadly this blog has to be lower on the list of priorities and other things that are not nearly as much fun or interesting.

But take heart. I am here now, O readers. And I have things to say. So let us begin.

“Who’s In Charge Here?”

Several days back, a blog I follow reposted an article about some BDSM myths. And for the most part I am in general agreement with the article. However, there is one point with which I take issue. It has to do with the question of who is in control of a BDSM relationship. I have written about this before, and I am going to write about it again. Know that none of what I say here is intended as criticism of the author of the article or the person who reposted it. What I am about to say is my own opinion on the matter.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 9) – NSFW

I have been promising to return to this story for a while. Well, wait no longer. The next part is here. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part nine of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is entirely fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 8) – NSFW

Am I really starting the new year with this? Apparently I am. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part eight of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six, seven) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 7) – NSFW

Yes, I know it has been a while since the last installment. But the next part is here now, so on with the disclaimer. This post is Not Safe For Work. This post is only for mature audiences. This post contains part seven of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five, six) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. This story is fiction. Reader discretion, as always, is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 6) – NSFW

This is post is Not Safe For Work. This post has been rated BP-MA (blog post-mature), and is only for mature audiences. This post contains part six of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (one, two, three, four, five) So there is no mistake, I repeat, this story involves an extreme level of control by one person of another. The characters in this story are all highly trained, imaginary constructs. Do not try this at home, unless you are really kinky and ready for the consequences. Reader discretion, as always, is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 5) – NSFW

This is post is Not Safe For Work. This post has been rated BP-MA (blog post-mature), and is only for mature audiences. This post contains part five of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (For part four and links to previous installments, click this link.) So there is no mistake, I repeat, an extreme level of control by one person of another. The characters in this story are all highly trained, imaginary constructs. Reader discretion is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 4) – NSFW

This is post is Not Safe For Work. This post has been rated BP-MA (blog post-mature), and is only for mature audiences. This post contains part four of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (Part one, part two, part three.) So there is no mistake, I repeat, an extreme level of control by one person of another. The characters in this story are all highly trained, imaginary constructs. Reader discretion is advised.

A Dream of Extreme Control (part 3) – NSFW

This is post is Not Safe For Work. This post has been rated BP-MA (blog post-mature), and is only for mature audiences. This post contains part three of a story with sexual language, naughty words and an extreme level of control by one person of another. (Part one, part two.) So there is no mistake, I repeat, an extreme level of control by one person of another. The characters in this story are all highly trained, imaginary constructs. Do not try this at home. At least, not with the blinds open. Reader discretion is advised.