Archive for Dominants

For Dominants: Follow-up to Sub Assignment Number Five

Posted in D/s, Dominance, For Doms with tags , , , on September 3, 2014 by Xajow

The fifth sub assignment is up. I hope, O Dominants, you will take the time to talk about the assignment with your submissives. The assignment is not difficult and should not be too time consuming. Continue reading

Let’s Talk About Obedience and Follow Through

Posted in D/s, Discipline, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on April 7, 2014 by Xajow

Okay, class, today’s topic is obedience and follow through. Yes, before you ask, this is a D/s post. And I will be talking to both Dominants and submissives. Yes, cute girl on the front row, what is it? Yes, you may kneel beside your desk, but I still expect you take notes. Now then, let’s begin. Continue reading

For Dominants: Follow Up to Sub Assignment Number 2

Posted in D/s, Dominance, For Doms with tags , , on February 27, 2014 by Xajow

I have now posted a second assignment for submissives. If you are a Dominant, and you like the assignment, here are some things to go along with that assignment. Continue reading

Getting to Know Your Dominant

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on November 12, 2013 by Xajow

I was asked some time back to talk about a Dominant’s needs versus wants. Specifically mine. Well, I am not going to get specific about mine. That is a topic for a private discussion in a different situation. I can speak, however, a little bit and in more general terms about the wants and needs of a Dominant. So that is what I will do. Continue reading

Project August: Day 13 – The Benefits of Tasks

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 13, 2013 by Xajow

If I ever do something like Project August again, I will definitely choose enough posts ahead of time to easily complete the project. As it is, I am winging this. Not the best way to do this, but it is what it is. Anyway, I was thinking about how to introduce the topic for today. And this is all I got: Yesterday I was looking through several posts that I had not previously read. And I came across one of Kayla Lord’s posts, and thought it would be a good prompt for a post. So the topic today is assigned tasks. Continue reading

Christianity and D/s

Posted in Advice, Christianity, D/s, Dominance, Morality, Philosophy, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 28, 2013 by Xajow

As promised and at long last, I am going to address the question of how I reconcile my Christian beliefs with D/s. The first thing I want to point out is that in truth I do not believe they need to be reconciled as such. “How can that be?” you ask incredulously. Well, if you will be patient, I will explain. And by “be patient” I mean to warn you that this is going to be a long post. Continue reading

Sometimes Dominants Need Alone Time

Posted in Advice, Alone, D/s, Dominance, submission with tags , , , , on August 10, 2012 by Xajow

Or maybe just I do. I do not know. But I am going to talk about it. Yes, right now. Continue reading