The fifth sub assignment is up. I hope, O Dominants, you will take the time to talk about the assignment with your submissives. The assignment is not difficult and should not be too time consuming. Continue reading
Archive for Dominants
For Dominants: Follow-up to Sub Assignment Number Five
Posted in D/s, Dominance, For Doms with tags D/s, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants on September 3, 2014 by XajowLet’s Talk About Obedience and Follow Through
Posted in D/s, Discipline, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags discipline, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, follow through, obedience, submission, submissives on April 7, 2014 by XajowOkay, class, today’s topic is obedience and follow through. Yes, before you ask, this is a D/s post. And I will be talking to both Dominants and submissives. Yes, cute girl on the front row, what is it? Yes, you may kneel beside your desk, but I still expect you take notes. Now then, let’s begin. Continue reading
For Dominants: Follow Up to Sub Assignment Number 2
Posted in D/s, Dominance, For Doms with tags D/s, Dominance/submission, Dominants on February 27, 2014 by XajowI have now posted a second assignment for submissives. If you are a Dominant, and you like the assignment, here are some things to go along with that assignment. Continue reading
Getting to Know Your Dominant
Posted in D/s, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags D/s, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominant nature, Dominants, individuals, Relationships, submission on November 12, 2013 by XajowI was asked some time back to talk about a Dominant’s needs versus wants. Specifically mine. Well, I am not going to get specific about mine. That is a topic for a private discussion in a different situation. I can speak, however, a little bit and in more general terms about the wants and needs of a Dominant. So that is what I will do. Continue reading
Project August: Day 13 – The Benefits of Tasks
Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags D/s, D/s relationships, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, submission, submissives, training submissives on August 13, 2013 by XajowIf I ever do something like Project August again, I will definitely choose enough posts ahead of time to easily complete the project. As it is, I am winging this. Not the best way to do this, but it is what it is. Anyway, I was thinking about how to introduce the topic for today. And this is all I got: Yesterday I was looking through several posts that I had not previously read. And I came across one of Kayla Lord’s posts, and thought it would be a good prompt for a post. So the topic today is assigned tasks. Continue reading
Christianity and D/s
Posted in Advice, Christianity, D/s, Dominance, Morality, Philosophy, Relationships, submission with tags bondservants, Christianity, D/s, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, husbands, masters, Morality, Relationships, submission, submissives, theology, wives on May 28, 2013 by XajowAs promised and at long last, I am going to address the question of how I reconcile my Christian beliefs with D/s. The first thing I want to point out is that in truth I do not believe they need to be reconciled as such. “How can that be?” you ask incredulously. Well, if you will be patient, I will explain. And by “be patient” I mean to warn you that this is going to be a long post. Continue reading
Sometimes Dominants Need Alone Time
Posted in Advice, Alone, D/s, Dominance, submission with tags alone time, D/s, Dominants, Shenandoah, submissives on August 10, 2012 by XajowOr maybe just I do. I do not know. But I am going to talk about it. Yes, right now. Continue reading