Archive for submissives

Let’s Talk About Obedience and Follow Through

Posted in D/s, Discipline, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , , on April 7, 2014 by Xajow

Okay, class, today’s topic is obedience and follow through. Yes, before you ask, this is a D/s post. And I will be talking to both Dominants and submissives. Yes, cute girl on the front row, what is it? Yes, you may kneel beside your desk, but I still expect you take notes. Now then, let’s begin. Continue reading

Sub Assignment Number 1

Posted in D/s, sub assignment, submission with tags , , on February 9, 2014 by Xajow

This is an assignment for all you submissives out there. You are, of course, free to choose whether or not you accept it. Participation is entirely voluntary. Continue reading

Project August: Day 26 – To Protect

Posted in Dominance, Project August, submission with tags , , , on August 26, 2013 by Xajow

Short post today because I am starting this one late. After a busy weekend, I did a lot of sleeping. Anyway, there are days I wish I had massive wealth like Bill Gates. Not because I love money, but because of something I would like to do with that money. But I suppose I should explain something. Don’t worry. I will be brief. Continue reading

Project August: Day 13 – The Benefits of Tasks

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags , , , , , , , on August 13, 2013 by Xajow

If I ever do something like Project August again, I will definitely choose enough posts ahead of time to easily complete the project. As it is, I am winging this. Not the best way to do this, but it is what it is. Anyway, I was thinking about how to introduce the topic for today. And this is all I got: Yesterday I was looking through several posts that I had not previously read. And I came across one of Kayla Lord’s posts, and thought it would be a good prompt for a post. So the topic today is assigned tasks. Continue reading

Project August: Day 11 – Not a Theology Post

Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags , , , , on August 11, 2013 by Xajow

Well, I did realize early this morning that many Christians blogging about matters of Christian theology might take a dim view of my blog. Not that I care so much about their opinions, but I am really not interested in getting any preachy or hateful responses. So later I had the idea to go find a blog post about BDSM and Christianity. Long story short: Ugh. What I found was wholly uninspiring. So, I will pull out a reserve post (i.e. a post I was “holding in reserve,” so to speak, should I need it) on a non-Christian topic. And so on this Sunday, August 11, 2013, the topic for today is… Continue reading

“I met a Dominant; so now what?”

Posted in Advice, D/s, Questions Answered, Relationships, submission with tags , , , , , , on July 18, 2013 by Xajow

The last question from the reader known as A628 is this: “How does one deal with if [having met and being tested by a Dominant] and wants to submit?” Basically, it follows from the previous two questions. Which is why I have summed it up as “I met a Dominant; so now what?” To inexperienced folks, the answer may seem obvious: submit to the Dominant. But this is, I think, a question which needs a more serious and substantive answer. And oddly enough, I think I will try to give it one. Continue reading

“How does one know when they are being tested…?”

Posted in Advice, D/s, Questions Answered, submission with tags , , , , , , , on July 17, 2013 by Xajow

Okay, the next question from the reader known as A628 is: “How does one know when they are being tested or perhaps even inadvertently trained as a submissive?” I confess, I am not certain as to what sort of situation A628 is referring, but I will attempt to answer this question anyway. For the purposes of this post, however, I am going to break it up into two separate questions.  Continue reading