Okay, class, today’s topic is obedience and follow through. Yes, before you ask, this is a D/s post. And I will be talking to both Dominants and submissives. Yes, cute girl on the front row, what is it? Yes, you may kneel beside your desk, but I still expect you take notes. Now then, let’s begin. Continue reading
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Let’s Talk About Obedience and Follow Through
Posted in D/s, Discipline, Dominance, Relationships, submission with tags discipline, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, follow through, obedience, submission, submissives on April 7, 2014 by XajowSub Assignment Number 1
Posted in D/s, sub assignment, submission with tags D/s, Dominance/submission, submissives on February 9, 2014 by XajowThis is an assignment for all you submissives out there. You are, of course, free to choose whether or not you accept it. Participation is entirely voluntary. Continue reading
Project August: Day 26 – To Protect
Posted in Dominance, Project August, submission with tags protection, strength, submissive, submissives on August 26, 2013 by XajowShort post today because I am starting this one late. After a busy weekend, I did a lot of sleeping. Anyway, there are days I wish I had massive wealth like Bill Gates. Not because I love money, but because of something I would like to do with that money. But I suppose I should explain something. Don’t worry. I will be brief. Continue reading
Project August: Day 13 – The Benefits of Tasks
Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags D/s, D/s relationships, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, submission, submissives, training submissives on August 13, 2013 by XajowIf I ever do something like Project August again, I will definitely choose enough posts ahead of time to easily complete the project. As it is, I am winging this. Not the best way to do this, but it is what it is. Anyway, I was thinking about how to introduce the topic for today. And this is all I got: Yesterday I was looking through several posts that I had not previously read. And I came across one of Kayla Lord’s posts, and thought it would be a good prompt for a post. So the topic today is assigned tasks. Continue reading
Project August: Day 11 – Not a Theology Post
Posted in D/s, Dominance, Project August, submission with tags D/s, dominance, Dominance/submission, submission, submissives on August 11, 2013 by XajowWell, I did realize early this morning that many Christians blogging about matters of Christian theology might take a dim view of my blog. Not that I care so much about their opinions, but I am really not interested in getting any preachy or hateful responses. So later I had the idea to go find a blog post about BDSM and Christianity. Long story short: Ugh. What I found was wholly uninspiring. So, I will pull out a reserve post (i.e. a post I was “holding in reserve,” so to speak, should I need it) on a non-Christian topic. And so on this Sunday, August 11, 2013, the topic for today is… Continue reading
“I met a Dominant; so now what?”
Posted in Advice, D/s, Questions Answered, Relationships, submission with tags Breathe, D/s, D/s relationships, Dominance/submission, submission, submissive, submissives on July 18, 2013 by XajowThe last question from the reader known as A628 is this: “How does one deal with if [having met and being tested by a Dominant] and wants to submit?” Basically, it follows from the previous two questions. Which is why I have summed it up as “I met a Dominant; so now what?” To inexperienced folks, the answer may seem obvious: submit to the Dominant. But this is, I think, a question which needs a more serious and substantive answer. And oddly enough, I think I will try to give it one. Continue reading
“How does one know when they are being tested…?”
Posted in Advice, D/s, Questions Answered, submission with tags D/s, Dominance/submission, submission, submissive, submissive behavior, submissives, testing submissives, training submissives on July 17, 2013 by XajowOkay, the next question from the reader known as A628 is: “How does one know when they are being tested or perhaps even inadvertently trained as a submissive?” I confess, I am not certain as to what sort of situation A628 is referring, but I will attempt to answer this question anyway. For the purposes of this post, however, I am going to break it up into two separate questions. Continue reading
“How does one know when they meet a Dominant?”
Posted in Advice, D/s, Questions Answered, submission with tags D/s, Dominance/submission, finding a Dominant, submission, submissives on July 16, 2013 by XajowBack to things as usual here at Liberate One world headquarters. Time to start answering some questions. Recently I got asked several questions by a reader known (to me) only as A628. I was going to address them all in a single post, but I changed my mind. I will give each question its own post. I will begin with “How does one know when they meet a Dominant?” Continue reading
Christianity and D/s
Posted in Advice, Christianity, D/s, Dominance, Morality, Philosophy, Relationships, submission with tags bondservants, Christianity, D/s, dominance, Dominance/submission, Dominants, husbands, masters, Morality, Relationships, submission, submissives, theology, wives on May 28, 2013 by XajowAs promised and at long last, I am going to address the question of how I reconcile my Christian beliefs with D/s. The first thing I want to point out is that in truth I do not believe they need to be reconciled as such. “How can that be?” you ask incredulously. Well, if you will be patient, I will explain. And by “be patient” I mean to warn you that this is going to be a long post. Continue reading
Sometimes Dominants Need Alone Time
Posted in Advice, Alone, D/s, Dominance, submission with tags alone time, D/s, Dominants, Shenandoah, submissives on August 10, 2012 by XajowOr maybe just I do. I do not know. But I am going to talk about it. Yes, right now. Continue reading